Ok. You must watch this video about "Me Church." It is a funny video but sadly, most people do want a church that meets their needs.
Also, John Piper wrote an excellent and moving article about being married to his wife. This is the kind of marriage that I want to be a part of (not that I want to be a part of his marriage - but that my marriage would reflect the same values and desires as his - just so I wouldn't confuse you!)
Hope you're having a great weekend!